Writing the Contract
Originally posted on My Journey as a Submissive:
A Dominant / submissive contract is a task in reflection, intention, motivation and emotion. It’s a chance for growth.
Before you even begin to write a D/s or M/s contract there are some things that you need to reflect upon. These are a few that I spent time on as I’ve been tasked with writing an agreement for D and I. Of course both of us had…
No thanks, I’ll pass
So one of the special ( and I say this loosely) gentleman that I have met on FL turned out to be one of a kind and not in a good way. We started chatting a few weeks ago and … Continue reading →
The Roots of BDSM; or By the Asses of Our Ancestors
Originally posted on The People Your Mother Warned You About:
Bondage and Domination didn’t begin with 50 Shades of Grey any more than pornography began with Deepthroat. The practices, as we know them today, go back over a century. To be fair, they go back much further, but they weren’t formally discussed or written down until it became important to have set rules in London’s Red Light…
How BDSM Is Good For Your Relationship
As I was checking my emails, I came across an article that I found to be very interesting. Here is a snippet of the article:
Are you bored of trying all those silly erotic things that once used to bring excitement in your relationship? Have you tried almost every sex position in the kama sutra? After a few years of a relationship or marriage, sexual life tends to become monotonous. This is the…
Swinger Parties across SoCal
For all my swinger readers, here is a list of some local events happening! For more info check them on SLS.
Wed Aug 13 Club Taboo Monthly Bi Party Club Taboo Corona, CA
Wed Aug 13 Hooleys Irish Pub: Meet & Greet SD-ConsentingCouplesClub El Cajon, CA
Sat Aug 16 SWINGING SATURDAY PARTY PLAY EVERY SAT. NITE & EVERY SUNDAY AFTERNOON TOO Gary and Margarets Mira Loma, CA
Sat Aug 16HOT HOT HOT…
Urethra Q-tip Torture
For this you will need a Q-Tip, rubbing alcohol and your cock. Dip the Q-tip in the alcohol and push it into your urethra. Do not use any lube other than more alcohol. Work the Q-Tip down into your hole. A semi erect cock works best. Work the Q-Tip all the way into your cock so the slit can almost close over the end. Do it on video or take pictures so we can see it all the way inside. Pull it out…
How to earn your cum
Originally posted on mistressbeth:
Give ME your cum, every single FUCKING time I want it…..it is a simple task really. It, like you, belongs to me. When I ask for it, drop what you are doing, and start working it out of your cock for me. If you didn’t ask me ….then you better not be cumming, not unless told, because it is NOT yours. THAT is how you earn your cum.
LIMITS - RED, YELLOW, GREEN….. ORANGE?
Originally posted on prettyinpinksubmissive:
I have been absent for a few days (weeks?). I’ve been doing a lot of thinking, contemplating.
I think it’s time to back up and punt!
Me – I am a newbie. I have never been collared. I have never been owned. I was married for 30 years, but that wasn’t the same thing. I was treated more as the mother/maid for the majority of those years. I was a…
The Oral Issue
Originally posted on CinnamonAndSparkles:
This is a subject that a lot of submissive women steer clear of, because let’s face it… it isn’t going to sound like submission and service.
First off, NOT every submissive likes to suck dick. Cock. Whatever your word of choice. Some do it strictly out of service. Because their dominant requires it. Because they want to please.
Why don’t they like it?…
SPANK ME! Hidden message bracelet by BeadySM registered trademark jewellery.
Originally posted on BeadySM:
SPANK ME! Hidden Message bracelet by BeadySM (rtm).
Another scrumptious and discreet item from BeadySM’s Entre Nous Hidden Message collection.
This bracelet is made with Stunning Red Swarovski Crystal beads and Haematite.
Chainmaille cat of nine
Chainmaille and leather is like peanut butter and jelly. A great accessory for your Renaissance Faire costume, this chainmaille and leather Cat of Nine Tails is the finishing touch. Be the envy of everyone at the Faire.
This Cat of Nine tails flogger is made from leather strips and a stainless steel chainmaille handle. Though functional it is made as a novelty item. This would make a great…